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Breastfeeding

Feb 9, 2012 bebelanLuarBiasa

Di bawah ni status aku di Facebook;

“Adakah kerana saya belum ada anak, atau orang lain pun rasa perkara sama? Saya rasa ‘lain macam’ bila wanita muslim tunjuk gambar sedang breastfeed anak dan baca status wanita muslim tentang situasi semasa atau selepas breastfeed anak. Kerana saya tidak terbayang kecomelan anak anda sebaliknya terus terbayang wajah dan boobs anda.

Siapa yang gemar buat begitu harap hide status dan gambar yg berkenaan dari akaun saya sebelum pos sebab suami saya juga selalu guna akaun Facebook saya. Jangan salah anggap, saya sentiasa sayangkan org2 di friendlist saya cuma saya tak mahu lihat dan baca perkara yang boleh buat saya dan suami rasa ‘lain macam’.”

Entahlah, asalnya tak mau cakap apa2. Tapi macam semakin berleluasa pulak. I have to make it clear why I don’t want to read and see that kind of thing because the target group is woman… heheh.

Aku sokong kempen breasfeeding. I dig about the benefits of breastfeeding because eventhough I have no kids yet but I have sisters with kids. But thats it. I don’t want to be loaded with visuals and snippets few times a day from multiple persons on my FB wall. Because it do pops some awkward images in my brain. I’m a multimedia programmer and I do photography jobs so imagining things is my everyday thing… ahahahah. So I don’t want that kind of ‘thing’ ruin the flow in my brain… heheh.

Why not hide their account? No way… those people are my friends and I love them. I do want to know about them (without the need to make any call, convenient… isn’t it?… heheh). I just don’t want to know about some particular stories/snippets. Now we have a lot of free blog provider like blogspot etc. Why not write it there so only people who really want to know about your breastfeed experience, what you feel, what you think of your breastfed babies, and you can upload pictures too. Ok… I just hope that no creepy person will stalk and save your pictures. Woohoo… thats scary.

I always believe sharing about ourself should be in moderation. Try to understand other people’s sensitivity and try to understand that weird creepy scary person do exist. That’s why not every entries in my blog I share in FB and I don’t share anything without ‘filtering’ it. Anyone wants to know what I think of any issue or just wants to read whatever blabbers I got can come here and read. Owh… maybe got link from search engine or what lah.

Aaa… where is this going? Am I loosing my direction… wahahah.

Ok ok… bottom point is, dear friends and anyone who read this, keep breastfeeding (woman with baby only, ahahha) because it’s good for you and your baby. Please remember that there are things that we better keep it to ourselves and I write about this because I always love you all.

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